Opinion

Abortion a good thing for parents too afraid to raise a child with Down syndrome?

People with Down syndrome have been making headlines a great deal in the last year thanks to newer genetic tests that can determine if an unborn child has Trisomy 21 earlier. Currently, up to 90% of all unborn children with Down syndrome are killed in the womb – punished to death for not being the child their parents had envisioned. Groups like the International Down Syndrome Coalition for Life know that with earlier diagnosis and inaccurate information from doctors, more women will abort their babies. People like Chelsea Hoffman are happy about that and show it by offending the Palin family, women who abort their children, and those with Down syndrome themselves.

Sarah Palin Is Better than the Rest of Us

In between hurling insults at either Bristol (she “can kind of string together a grammatically correct sentence”) or Sarah Palin (“and whatever ‘help’ she pays to do her mothering for her”), Hoffman recently made the claim that women who abort their children with Down Syndrome are weak and therefore should absolutely be able to abort their once-wanted baby. Hoffman says that unlike Sarah Palin, “many women simply do not have that ‘courage’ or whatever it is you want to call it” to bring a baby with Down syndrome into the world.

Hoffman believes what many doctors believe, which is that children with Down syndrome are a burden on society and on families. But Hoffman is right about one thing: it takes courage to raise a child with Down syndrome or any disability. There will be many battles, but there will also be many joys and triumphs. Doctors fail parents when they tell them it takes courage to kill their baby out of compassion, and when they share outdated information on Down syndrome with parents. They, and Hoffman, sell parents short. Anyone – not just the Palins – who is willing, is therefore able to successfully care for and raise a beautiful, smart, kind, and thriving person with Down syndrome.

Fear Should Equal Death for a “Broken” Child

Despite research indicating that 79% of parents of children with Down Syndrome say they have a more positive outlook on life, Hoffman believes that many people simply can’t handle raising a child with Down Syndrome due to fears of any dependencies the child may have. These, she thinks, are the perfect excuses for parents to kill their child. She says that these parents simply don’t know if their child’s severity of Down syndrome will be low or high, and they shouldn’t be forced to make that gamble. She writes, “To those women who do like to gamble against the odds: good for you. Just don’t expect every single parent on Earth to subscribe to the idea that broken DNA is a good thing.”

In other words, people with Down syndrome are broken, and their parents are cowardly. Therefore, parents should have the right to take their child’s life rather than give him up for adoption at birth. Hoffman, and the rest of the eugenics supporters, would rather a baby with Down syndrome never be born than be given life with a loving adoptive family.

When so many people flood our world with negative views on Down syndrome, they are discriminating not only against people with disabilities, but against those people’s parents, too. Even if birth parents don’t feel they are able to give their child with Down syndrome the best life possible, they can find adoptive parents who can. And that child will then have two sets of parents who made the brave and loving act of giving life.

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  • Ds Mama

    Hoffmann has found that the only time her writing gets any real attention is when she goes after children with Ds and their parents. 

    • http://twitter.com/TheRealChelseaH Chelsea Hoffman

      or perhaps when people continuously write about me :) 

      • Realclownlette

        Anyone who would kill a child because it has a disability is a screwed up person who should never be allowed to have another child if they abort their baby because they don’t want to take care of him or her, anything can happen at anytime in this world and the healthy child these people wanted so badly, could very well end up disabled for another reason, is it ok to then shoot or smother that child so you don’t have to deal with them depending on you for the rest of their life?
        I had a daughter who died at 3 1/2 years old due to a blood disorder she was born with. I would gladly do it all over again. even with all the hassle and sleepless nights spent in a hospital. I would give up my very life for my children, and that is what makes me a real mother.

  • Jbron

    It’s too bad we can’t tell in utero if someone is going to be hateful and discriminatory, they are the ones that should be aborted not precious beautiful innocent babies that will forever have kind loving hearts. I dont know about you but I have never met a person with special needs that is racist, sexist, or hateful in any way. I think hate and bigotry is the biggest disability. The problem with wrong thinking is that it doesn’t want to grow and change, it wants everyone else to think like they do so they feel important and justified. And yes the more light that is brought to these disgusting people the better they feel about their rottenness.

  • http://twitter.com/TheRealChelseaH Chelsea Hoffman

    Thanks to the traffic provided by this blog and its visitors, I’ve been able to raise $250 in Adsense money to donate to the Planned Parenthood Action Center — for better availability of abortions for women and other needed healthcare. 
    Thanks!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1009776763 Angela Barrett

    Oh Chelsea, Chelsea, so young and so naive. I agree that each woman has to make her own choice on the matter, but it shouldn’t be based on outdated, ignorant perceptions of these children. What I take offense to is your comment that the world would be better without DS children, which is absolutely false. 22 years ago, I gave birth a DS female. I knew nothing of DS, and spent the first few months in denial and feeling sorry for myself. But guess what, every day this happy, loving child wound her way into my heart, and today, I am so glad I didn’t have a so called ‘normal’ child. This child has driven me to be the successful, strong and happy woman that I am today, and I thank God each and every day for the blessing he bestowed on me. Everyone that comes into contact with her is made a little happier for it. I suggest you do some volunteer work with some of these ‘broken’ children before spouting any more misinformation. These children are as much, or more, a gift from God, than a ‘genetical correct’ child is, and have every right to exist. And please don’t procreate until you open up your mind and heart more.