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On the sidewalks of spain, a life is saved

Lila and Jennie

Last week I had the awesome opportunity to attend World Youth Day in Madrid and the privilege of meeting part of the Live Action team. Little did I know that the blessings God would bestow upon me would not end there.

In fact, towards the end of a pro-life prayer vigil I attended, Lila actually went into the clinic with pro-life literature to give to anyone that was inside. She managed to place literature all over tables, in the bathroom, and on the doctor’s desk—now THAT is brave!

The only person inside the clinic was a female worker, but Lila and I decided to leave a note with the number of a pregnancy center that could help her find a new job, and to let her know that we are there for her too, and not just to help pregnant women. Along with the note, we left several white roses for her on the patio of the facility.

This clinic itself was very inconspicuous. Perhaps the fact that on its window, it lists about 10 different services it provides, but conveniently neglects abortion “services,” makes it easy to pass it by without a second thought.

Like the largest abortion facility in Madrid, DATOR, the clinic at which we prayed is open 24/7, including Christmas. Youth Defence of Ireland organized a vigil protest that afternoon. Fortunately, it didn’t seem like a very busy day, but I have no idea what the typical number of clientele is on a daily basis.

Cops were hovering around us like vultures. I was one of very few people who spoke Spanish, so I was their go-to woman whenever they had something to say. It also meant I would be sidewalk counseling to women who entered the clinic.

Sidewalk counseling in English to an abortion-minded woman is hard enough as it is. I thought to myself, “how will I possibly find the words in Spanish to convince a woman to let her unborn child live when she is so set on aborting? Especially when I have all of 10 seconds to do it?” But I haven’t been studying the language since I was ten years old for nothing. I hadn’t spent two months immersed in the culture of Spain for nothing. In the book of Matthew, we are told that when the time comes to speak God’s message, it won’t be our words, but it will be He speaking through us (Matthew 10:19-20). I trusted it would be the same when it came to speaking in Spanish too.

Youth protest abortion clinic.

Not long after we arrived, a young couple with a little girl in a stroller approached the clinic. I hurried over to them and asked them, in Spanish, if I could help them in any way. They both looked at me hesitantly. I asked as compassionately as possible if they were here for an abortion. The woman’s eyes filled with tears and she walked inside. The man, holding the stroller, turned to me and said “Te digo sí, estamos aquí para abortar.” (“I’ll just go ahead and tell you that yes; we’re here for an abortion.”) I pleaded with him to tell his wife that we were outside for them, that we love them and will do whatever it takes to help them out.

At this point, the doctor came over to the door and angrily told me to get away from them. “Vete a la iglesia. ¡Quítate de aquí!” (“Go to your church instead. Get out of here!”) He said angrily. (Yes, there is a church right across the street from this facility. There’s also a small children’s playground across the street in front of it. Ironic?)

The man had taken the literature I offered him, and he walked inside. Disheartened, I walked back to the corner where I was standing so the cops wouldn’t get on my case for being too close to the abortion facility door. I told all the other people praying to especially keep that young family in their prayers because they were there for an abortion. I stared at the facility, thinking about the little girl whose sibling was destined to die.

About ten minutes later though, all three of them came back out. Anxious, I approached them again asking if everything was OK. The man turned to me and said “No queremos hacerlo.” (They did not want to have the abortion!) Curbing my enthusiasm and staying calm, I ushered them across the street. We traded phone numbers as he told me they felt that with the hard times in the Spanish economy, they couldn’t handle another baby. I let them know that we would be getting in touch with a pregnancy center for them, and that they could get the help they needed. I asked the woman how far along she was, and she told me three months. I explained in Spanish what her child looked like, that he or she had a heartbeat, and that bodily functions were present. Afterwards, I called a local pregnancy center and let them know that there was a family here that would be needing assistance, and the family went on their way knowing that they would be receiving help from a center that truly cares about their well-being and is not interested in taking their money and their baby’s life.

After Lila so courageously entered the clinic to distribute pro-life literature, she led a decade of the rosary before the vigil ended. A life was saved, and hopefully a worker’s heart was touched—we consider this a victorious day.

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  • http://www.facebook.com/raymond.mcintyre Ray Mc Intyre

    Thanks to Lila and and a massive thanks to Jennie for helping that young couple to change their mind and to keep their baby.I was there with other Irish ,Polish and German WYD pilgrims and it was so emotional as we all watched and prayed for the young couple to keep their baby.

  • De_stiney

    God bless you all and everything you do to help save the unborn babies and the consciences and souls of our, previously, abortion minded, brothers and sisters. May that baby and all others saved know how truely blessed they are to have been in the right womb at the right time and saved by just the right kind of lovely, generous, and kind-hearted, compassionate people such as yourselves. Praise be with you. You cartainly deserve it!

  • Jobin Thomas

    This is wonderful. I particularly love that part: ”In the book of Matthew, we are told that when the time comes to speak God’s message, it won’t be our words, but it will be He speaking through us (Matthew 10:19-20). ”

    I have often experienced this too: that when it comes to serving, it doesn’t matter what you know or how you do it, all you need is the heart to do it and God makes a way. I commend your efforts and those of the Live action team. You guys are amazing.

  • Guest

    What about those in the US who sidewalk counsel every day with little fanfare? They certainly don’t receive $5000 speaking stipends like Lila Rose. 

    • Michelle

      they are all kept record in the kingdom of heaven.

  • Anonymous

    So glad Lila loves LIFE and walks in LIFE.

  • Kristina

    Blessed be to God…and Thank You

  • Michelle

    praise GOD! This story brought me to tears knowing that this little life may have a chance. How that was all of us at one point, in our mothers womb.. weak and defenseless. He uses the weak to lead the strong. It is for there protection that we unite as a family of God.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_MFI2DBY4KKKEWREWWMF5Z73RGI Mary

    Aw! This brought me to tears. Such a sweet story. :) We must provide for those who need support like this. 

  • Janeflute

    Is someone following up with this family to make sure they get the assistance they need?  All too often, pregnant moms are told of assistance available, but they are not taken by the hand and walked beside to help them get through their pregnancy and helping thereafter.  I hope someone like Lila and others are there to find them and follow up.  IT’s SO important.

  • Jes

    You truly are modern-day heroes!!!  Thank you for your love and courage, LiveAction!!!

  • H. Akins

    Thank you so much Lila, isn’t it sad that people have to make a decision to end life because they feel that they can’t afford it.  Some how, some way God provides and will not let the family starve.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000150054754 Elizabeth Volkmer

    Awesome story!   I will pray that this couple got the help they needed

  • Kerry

    Wonderful!!!!  So glad there are people who are willing to put their words into actions and protect the unborn and to help prospective parents see there is another way.