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Responding to… “pro-lifers: are you willing to adopt all the babies?”

Authors Note: I wrote this today and sent it to the Fresno Bee as a letter to the editor, in response to someone else’s letter that appeared yesterday. Much of this is not original material. I’ve borrowed from two of my colleagues who have worded amazing responses to this general argument. Those colleagues are Scott Klusendorf and Steve Wagner. I added some of my own words and compiled everything together into what is hopefully an effective response. I hope this gives you a few ideas for what you can say the next time you hear this pro-abortion-choice argument.

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In response to Jackie DeFreitas 5/20 letter challenging pro-lifers to adopt unwanted babies, she misses the point. Let’s assume, for the sake of argument, that pro-lifers are not already adopting unwanted children. How would this in any way justify the act of dismembering a defenseless child?

While I do think that pro-lifers have a duty to help those facing an unplanned pregnancy (both mother and baby), it is not true that abortion is justified whenever that obligation is left unmet. At best, you’d prove that some pro-lifers are inconsistent. That’s all.

How bizarre would it be for me to argue, “Unless you are willing to marry my wife, you have no right to oppose me beating her.” Or, “Unless you employ ex-slaves in your business, you have no right to oppose slavery.” (Indeed, this was the very argument slave owners made a century ago.)

Here’s my challenge to Jackie: if pro-lifers like me ARE willing to adopt them, (and many are willing to adopt physically or mentally handicapped babies as well,) will you agree that abortion is morally wrong and should be illegal?

Josh Brahm
Director of Education & P.R., Fresno Right to Life
Host, Life Report: Pro-Life Talk. Real World Answers.

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  • Naquanna Comeaux

    Great response!!!

  • Debby Meier

    Very good and I hope to be as articulate the next time it comes up.

  • miki

    I would take in *any* unwanted child in a heartbeat. I'd also take in their mother, as well.

  • neli

    i think both,but in specialy the slavery example is so true…and i hope generations after us will look back and say:"how people can be so limited and think that abortion is ok if it's legal?"

  • http://www.mytruechoice.com Ceecee

    Great set of responses. But the problem is that as soon as pro-lifers step up to the plate on the adoption thing, the pro-aborts get busy fighting against adoption. They support (and maybe staff) anti-adoption groups on the internet, and campaign against it as hard as they can. This is designed to cut away one more choice for women in crisis pregnancies, so they can be more easily coerced into an unwanted abortion. More money for the baby killing centers.

    Try walking into a planned parenthood center when pregnant, to talk about all your options, and tell them you want to put your baby up for adoption. See how supportive they are of that idea. I can guarantee you they won't like it. It won't get them the money that abortion will.

  • Simon

    As far as I'm concerned this only applies to Pro-Lifers who oppose abortion in rape cases. In rape the mother isn't morally responsible for the life she is carrying, and like in Judith Thompson's "Violinist" analogy, we aren't duty bound in general to give up our bodily autonomy to strangers or even family for that matter.

    So by forcing her to have the baby even though she isn't morally responsible, would be like us being forced to either donate a organ to save a life.

    Regarding adoption, Pro-Life often argues against the argument that viability and the bodily independence is relevant, partly due to the point that neither the born or unborn, are truly independent organisms. Since the only real difference is that one is cared for internally and the other externally.

    Therefore if we are saying there is a sort of equivalence in care, that an innocent life is of utmost value, and we are asking a rape victim to give up her bodily autonomy to save a life she isn’t responsible for, it isn't unreasonable to ask Pro-Lifers to adopt or foster for at least 9months and do the same. If we refuse we are then saying we can force a rape victim to give up her bodily autonomy but don’t ask me to do the same.

    What Josh hasn’t done is correctly zeroed in on who is doing what to whom and what are the relevant rights in question. So there is no general equivalence in his counter.

    BTW I’ll be speaking to him tomorrow so it will be interesting to hear his reply.

  • Sarah

    Simon, I have to respectfully disagree with you. To be honest, there was a time when I felt the same way that you did. I felt this way out of compassion for the mother. What a terrible thing to have to go through! To be sinned against in a terrible way, and then be forced to carry the fruit of that sin, and deliver the fruit of that sin! I still do have great compassion for anyone that finds themselves in that terrible situation. However, my heart has been changed in the matter, regarding abortion. I remember listening to a "Focus on the Family" program, which featured a mother who was raped and became pregnant because of it, before Roe v. Wade. She delivered her baby, and chose to raise him as a single mother. At the time of the radio program, her son was now an adult. I remember her crying as she explained how much she loved him, and what a blessing he was to her and the world. He was born out of a terrible crime against her, and a sinful act, but he had become one of her greatest blessings. If Roe v. Wade had been in effect, she would have aborted him, without question. She shuddered to think now, of that possibility. My reasoning for changing my mind goes far beyond the example of this happy ending. I do not determine the morality of abortion, based on whether or not there can be a happy ending. However, this story touched me, and I began to realize what may be lost, when innocent babies are aborted.

    That particular mother chose to take it a step further, and not only deliver her baby, but raise him as well. I think that is absolutely amazing, and I would not expect every mother in that situation to make the same choice. However, the truth is, any baby conceived, regardless of the circumstances, deserves the chance to LIVE.

    Here is a summary of an interview, shown on the Live Action website. The interviewer went up to two young ladies at an outdoor concert, and asked them some questions. "Do you believe in abortion?" Both of them said no. He then asked the girls, "What about in the case of rape or incest?" They then said, yes, in those cases they feel it is okay. He then asked them this question: "Do you believe in giving an innocent person the death penalty?" Both answered "no, of course not." He then explained, very lovingly, that this is exactly what happens when a baby conceived out of rape or incest is aborted. You could see the light bulbs turn on in their heads, and they suddenly "got it". They both agreed that abortion was never okay, regardless of the circumstances of the conception.

    I really believe it is this simple.

    Blessings, and thank you for letting me share my thoughts…

  • http://Facebook Karen

    I have taken in three; for the last rwelve years they are the light of our life!

    how many have you taken in?

  • ninek

    The use of the phrase 'bodily autonomy' really gets my dander up! That is a euphemism for 'killing a child because I'm too impatient to wait a few months.' Maybe the new pro-choice slogan can be:

    "If I can't be in total control, tiny heads are going to roll!"

  • ninek

    Oops, I hit submit too soon.

    The countering question to pro-choice people might be: Are you willing to pay for any and all counseling, psychiatric care, anti-depressents, fertility treatments, surgery to repair scarring, divorce costs, etc. etc. for post abortive women?? Because unless you are willing to personally take responsibility for the emotional and physical effects of the proceedure then you cannot call yourself pro-choice.

  • Simon

    Sarah that’s just it how ones feels about is should be neither here nor there for both Pro-Life or Pro-Choice. What is relevant is consistent moral rules followed consistently. In this instance where we have a conflict of interests between two moral beings, where right to life, bodily autonomy and moral responsibility are involved–all highly valued in society- so one should apply the same reasoning in general as in other non pregnancy based cases.

    If the rape victim goes to term that is great but it is still a supererogatory act, just as if you give up bodily autonomy via donating an organ for a child with a terminal illness. Again the underlying point is it is fantastic for anyone to sacrifice a highly valued right to save another life, but it is hypocritical to expect others to do it when you aren’t prepared to do it your-self.

  • http://jwsministries.org Pastor John Speer

    Pro aborters are people that know it is wrong but they get a kick out of murdering un born humans because they just want to kill people and have power over life but woe to those who shed innocent blood they face the wrath of their creator Jesus Christ

  • http://reconciledtogod.blogspot.com/ Young Christian Woma

    My response is simple:

    Yes. Every single one. If I cannot adopt them I will find someone who can.

    There is nothing I would not give up if it would save a child's life.

    I would love to adopt, even though I already have to biological children (so far).

    Let's go ahead and set up a system where abortion is legal only if no one will adopt the fetus in question. People can register to be willing to adopt the children.

    I guarantee you none will die, especially if they aren't requiring some sort of lengthy, intrusive process to register, and things are done honestly. Why? Because if no one else would adopt that child, I would. And because there have got to be thousands more like me out there.

  • Sarah

    "Consistent moral rules followed consistently" I couldn't agree more. My stance is that abortion should never be legal. I would say that is pretty consistent.

    I'm not understanding your last point. We are determining right from wrong. It's not relative, based on whether or not everyone else in the entire country would be willing to carry a baby conceived out of rape, to full term. (Which, I would do that, by the way, but that has nothing to do with the moral aspect of abortion.) Some people DO choose to murder, steal, rape, etc… Should we make those actions legal, to avoid living in a "hypocritical country"? Perhaps I just really misunderstood your point, but I'm not sure where you are going with that.

    Abortion is either okay, or it is not. The act of abortion is the act of murdering an innocent human being. "Life" trumps "bodily autonomy" every day of the week, and twice on Sunday. Period. Again, I have compassion for the poor woman who finds herself in that situation. However, allowing her to have an abortion, is morally unacceptable, in my opinion. However, what does MY opinion matter, when compared to the opinion of God, our Creator.

    I will close with this paragraph, that I found from a pro-life website: "The final outcome of the battle for life has already been decided by the Resurrection of Christ. We are not just working for victory; we are working from victory. We joyfully take a victory that has already been won, and proclaim, celebrate, and serve it until He comes again to bring it to its fullness. "There shall be no more death" (Revelation 21:4). "Amen. Come, Lord Jesus!" (Revelation 22:20)."

  • http://ProLifePodcast.net Josh Brahm

    In response to Pastor Speer, I respectfully disagree with your take on why women have abortions, or why people are pro-choice. I don't think the vast majority of them "get a kick out of murdering people." I think these women often feel like abortion is the only way out for them. I believe it is important for us to accurately understand the other side so that we can better dialogue with them. There's more I could say about this, but I'll stop for now.

  • Kate

    I can see both sides. It's not fair to the baby, but if you believe in god, you believe it will be born to another mother. But it is fair to the woman. It's HER body and it's HER uterus. There are always exceptions. I can understand a 16 year old accidentally getting pregnant and getting one abortion, but people shouldn't be allowed to get like 12 of them because they're not smart enough to use protection.

  • Simon

    Sarah no you are missing the point. No doubt I'll be taking this up with Josh when I talk with him and he can try to convey what I'm talking about.

  • http://ProLifePodcast.net Josh Brahm

    Thanks for responding to my piece, Simon. Sorry we missed our conversation last week, but I'm looking forward to talking to you in the future. In the meantime, let's dialogue a little about your counter-argument, so the others can understand both of our views a little better.

    I have a few clarification questions for you. I think I understand where you're coming from, but I want to make sure I do before offering my own counter-argument, so as not to accidently commit a strawman.

    Do you believe abortion is justified in rape cases?

    Do you think Judith Thompson's "Violinist analogy" is a sound one, or do you think there are areas where the analogy fails to describe a pregnant woman's situation?

    If you do think her analogy is sound, why is it that you believe abortion isn't morally justified for non-rape cases? Thompson's analogy is certainly more powerful when talking about rape cases, but Thompson believed abortion was morally justifiable in general, not just in rape cases.

    Lastly, you wrote that I failed to correctly zero in on who is doing what to whom and what are the relevant rights in question. Enlighten us on who is doing what to whom, and what are the relevant rights in question.

    Thanks, Simon!

  • ninek

    Kate, you think if one believes in God it's ok to abort because the baby will be born to another mother?! OK, let's run with that premise: We know that a 20 week fetus feels pain. We strongly suspect that a 13 week old fetus feels pain because it will (as observed on ultrasound) try to swim away from the abortionist's tools. Now, do you believe it is ok to put this person through pain, not once, not twice, but through as many abortions it must go through in order to be born at full term?! Do you think God has this big waiting rooom full of 'potential' babies and they eagerly jump at the chance to be torn apart by their mothers' hired killers? Seriously?

  • http://ProLifePodcast.net Josh Brahm

    It occurs to me that the larger problem with the argument that "abortion is okay because the baby will be born to another mother," is that the argument proves too much. Why would it be wrong to kill a newborn? After all, it'll just be born to another mother, right? If not, why is the fetus different than the newborn?

    There is nothing in Scripture that can even be taken out of context to back up this thinking. It strikes me as more wishful thinking / an attempt to get pro-life Christians to not care so much about ending abortion.

    But maybe I'm wrong…

    and maybe I'm not.

  • Richard Moore

    Josh –

    As usual, each of your arguments begin with a set of assertions you assume to be proven. Takes these away, and you have made no point at all.

    "How would this in any way justify the act of dismembering a defenseless child?"

    There is no child, there is a fetus. Both of these words have definitions that prevent logical equivalency. This makes this assertion just an emotional appeal based upon a lie.

    "..it is not true that abortion is justified whenever that obligation is left unmet."

    No one has made this claim, but you clearly need it rationalize your position. The assertion that anti-choicers should take responsibilty for their actions has nothing to do with a women's right to an abortion.

    "How bizarre would it be for me to argue, “Unless you are willing to marry my wife, you have no right to oppose me beating her.” Or, “Unless you employ ex-slaves in your business, you have no right to oppose slavery.”

    You assume that a terribly flawed analogy strengthens your argument, but again, your premise is completely wrong. You are implying that it is absurd to require a third-party to take responsibility for the actions of another. That is true, and no one has suggested otherwise. What has been suggested is that the person taking the action take responsibility for the outcome (anti-choicers should take responsibility for the outcome of their own actions).

    "Here’s my challenge to Jackie: if pro-lifers like me ARE willing to adopt them, (and many are willing to adopt physically or mentally handicapped babies as well,) will you agree that abortion is morally wrong and should be illegal?"

    Again, a false premise. Many pro-choice people also adopt unwanted children — clearly ones position on this issue has nothing to do with their attitudes on the morality of the issue.

    And illegal? You have supplied no evidence that your personal beliefs should become laws that govern the private actions of others. In fact, your dependency upon a plethora of unproven assertions make you the last person to be proposing such restrictions. Our laws are arrived at by rational thought, not the prejudices of individuals.

  • http://ProLifePodcast.net Josh Brahm

    Richard, thanks for your thoughts on this. Instead of just attacking me, you have attacked my arguments, and I appreciate that.

    “As usual, each of your arguments begin with a set of assertions you assume to be proven.”

    My arguments do presuppose that the unborn entity is a valuable human being like you and me. But I can provide sophisticated philosophical arguments to base that on. You are right though, that if the unborn entity is not a valuable human being, than the rest of my arguments are gone. If you can prove that the unborn is not a valuable human like you and me, then you’ve pretty much defeated the pro-life argument.

    “There is no child, there is a fetus.”

    I try to be careful not to play word-games, like some on both sides of this issue play. But this looks pretty similar to word games to me.

    I guess it depends on how you define “child.” If “child” only means a young human that has been born, then you’re right, a human fetus doesn’t qualify. I don’t think that birth is relevant to your inherent value, though.

    Either way, it doesn’t really matter what we call this living, human entity. What matters is the way we treat this entity. We either treat this entity as another human being at a different stage of development as us, or we discriminate against her because she is less developed.

    If I had instead written, “how would this in any way justify the act of dismembering a defenseless human being,” would that have satisfied you? Because I see the two as equivalent. I’m not trying to use over-emotional terms to just get people on my side. That’s lame when either side does that.

    “No one has made this claim, [that abortion is justified whenever that obligation is left unmet] but you clearly need it rationalize your position.”

    I disagree. I’ve personally talked to lots of pro-choice people that make this claim. I’m glad that you’re not making that claim, but some do. They say pro-lifers shouldn’t even talk about the humanity of the unborn or claim that abortion is morally wrong if they’re not willing to first adopt all the unwanted babies. I’m just arguing that this is a poor pro-choice argument, because abortion is either right or wrong, regardless of how many babies I’ve personally adopted.

    That doesn’t mean I shouldn’t be willing to adopt an unwanted child; but even if I didn’t, even if I hated kids, that would only prove me inconsistent, not that my position is false.

    Where it appears we agree is that talking about pro-lifers not being willing to adopt enough kids is not a good argument for abortion rights. But I was specifically responding to a letter to the editor in the Fresno Bee from a woman that spent most of her space making this argument. If she had made a more sophisticated argument for abortion rights, then I would have responded to that instead of responding to this. (which would have been equivalent to attacking a straw man.)

    “What has been suggested is that the person taking the action take responsibility for the outcome (anti-choicers should take responsibility for the outcome of their own actions).”

    In other words, if anti-choicers make it illegal to abort unwanted babies, they better be willing to adopt them first. I actually think that would happen, but that’s beside the point. If my foundational argument is correct, that the unborn are valuable human beings like you and me, then this pro-choice argument would be tantamount to telling William Wilberforce that unless he’s willing to take responsibility for the outcome of his actions in the abolition movement, (taking care of all the freed slaves) he shouldn’t be trying to abolish slavery.

    Yes, I think it was important to help the freed slaves transition to a very new life, but even if William Wilberforce had lived long enough to refuse to participate in that, I wouldn’t have lectured him for helping free the slaves in the first place.

    “Many pro-choice people also adopt unwanted children — clearly ones position on this issue has nothing to do with their attitudes on the morality of the issue.”

    That’s not at all what I’m arguing. I’m responding to Jackie’s case that the pro-life position is not true because pro-lifers are supposedly unwilling to adopt all the unwanted babies. Thus, my counter-argument is valid.

    What I am NOT arguing is that the pro-life position is true because many of us are willing to adopt babies. I know some high-level pro-choice activists that are very concerned about the foster care system for example, and good for them! I’m concerned about that as well. We have common ground on that issue. That doesn’t make either one of us right or wrong on the abortion issue. And I think that’s pretty clear when you understand Jackie’s argument that I’m responding to.

    “And illegal? You have supplied no evidence that your personal beliefs should become laws that govern the private actions of others.”

    That’s right. I haven’t supplied that evidence in this piece, because there’s a word count limit when writing letters to the editor. If I were asked to make a legal case against abortion rights, it would not be my above response to a lame ad-hominem attack against pro-lifers. It would be something more like this:

    1. The unborn entity, from fertilization, is a full-fledged member of the human community.

    2. It is prima facie morally wrong to kill any member of that community.

    3. Every successful abortion kills an unborn entity, a full-fledged member of the human community.

    4. Therefore, every successful abortion is prima facie morally wrong.

  • Bobby Bambino

    Hi Richard.

    "There is no child, there is a fetus."

    Okay, suppose Josh had written "human being." As he pointed out, this is simply a semantic quibble. The main problem is that the argument that Josh was originally addressing begs the question. It assumes that the unborn is either not worthy of life, or not human, or who knows what else. To be more precise, it does not in any way address the main claim that pro-lifers make which is that abortion is the unjust taking of an innocent human life.

    So I claim that that abortion is the unjust taking of an innocent human life. And the response is "how many babies have you adopted?" Huh?

    Josh wrote:"“..it is not true that abortion is justified whenever that obligation is left unmet.”

    and Richard responded "No one has made this claim, but you clearly need it rationalize your position. The assertion that anti-choicers should take responsibilty for their actions has nothing to do with a women’s right to an abortion."

    Then I have to ask, Richard, what is the argument supposed to be? Suppose I have adopted no children and have never and will never do anything for anyone ever. It therefore follows that…?

    Can you maybe phrase the argument in terms of a syllogism? I don't know what the conclusion to be drawn is, and so Josh and I have to speculate.

    "You assume that a terribly flawed analogy strengthens your argument, but again, your premise is completely wrong. You are implying that it is absurd to require a third-party to take responsibility for the actions of another. That is true, and no one has suggested otherwise. What has been suggested is that the person taking the action take responsibility for the outcome."

    Richard, this simply does not make any sense. Josh was attempting to put forward the premise that "If you claim an action is immoral (and should consequently be outlawed), you are not responsible for an alternative outlet for that immoral action." What you've done is simply do a 180 and place the burden on pro-lifers.

    "And illegal? You have supplied no evidence that your personal beliefs should become laws that govern the private actions of others. "

    This was clearly not the point of this article. I am sure Josh can easily defend this position, but teh purpose at hand was to point out the question-begging nature of the original argument.

    Take care, Richard.

  • Richard Moore

    Josh –

    Again, please refrain from straw men, they add nothing to your argument.

    "You are right though, that if the unborn entity is not a valuable human being, than the rest of my arguments are gone"

    This is not my wording at all. I only insist that you bring an accepted dictionary to the discussion, not your own personal one.

    "If you can prove that the unborn is not a valuable human like you and me, then you’ve pretty much defeated the pro-life argument."

    Trying to shift the burden of proof is a waste of time here, Josh. I buy into none of your premises, and you have not proven them. This is poor basis to pass laws that govern others — what's next, prove you are not a child molester and I will let you bear children?

    "What matters is the way we treat this entity. We either treat this entity as another human being at a different stage of development as us, or we discriminate against her because she is less developed."

    This is a false dichotomy. Are you proposing we treat children as adults, and give them the right to vote and drive cars? Treatment of human beings is based upon rational justification, not personal prejudice, as this treatment is never called discrimination. Again, quit trying to use your own dictionary.

    "If I had instead written, “how would this in any way justify the act of dismembering a defenseless human being,” would that have satisfied you? Because I see the two as equivalent"

    I know you do, but seeing a false equivalency is basis for a convincing argument. Many see all Muslims as equivalent to the 9/11 terrorists, or all Christians as David Koresh. Any equivalency needs to be justified independently.

    "I’ve personally talked to lots of pro-choice people that make this claim."

    I sincerely doubt you have ever met anyone who has said "Unless a anti-choice person will adopt your child when born then you should abort it". Please. You are forgetting that pro-choice is just what it says — no judgement is made on what a person should do with their unborn child. Your assertion is too ludicrous be believed without some objective evidence.

    "But I was specifically responding to a letter to the editor in the Fresno Bee from a woman that spent most of her space making this argument."

    You specifically claimed in this blog to be supplying arguments in general against a position. Are you now saying you only have an argument against a specific individual? What is the use in that? Or are you moving goalposts here?

    " I actually think that would happen, "

    Again, what you think would happen, in opposition to all known fact (the statistics on what happens when abortion is illegal is quite easy to look up. Do you really think we should make laws based on fantasy?)

    " telling William Wilberforce that unless he’s willing to take responsibility for the outcome of his actions in the abolition movement, (taking care of all the freed slaves) he shouldn’t be trying to abolish slavery."

    Your premise: Africans were unwanted humans requiring the care of others. Actual premise: Africans were completely able take care for themselves, given freedom.

    This issue exists because a fetus and a newly born child cannot care for themselves. You must address the issue, not try to argue through bad analogy.

    "That’s not at all what I’m arguing. I’m responding to Jackie’s case that the pro-life position is not true because pro-lifers are supposedly unwilling to adopt all the unwanted babies. Thus, my counter-argument is valid."

    No, because you have not answered Jackie at all: What do you propose to do with children that society lacks the resources to care for? A real solution, not a fantasy one. Answer that, and then you have supplied a counter-argument.

    " That doesn’t make either one of us right or wrong on the abortion issue."

    Then why do you link adoption to the morality of abortion in your final statement in the blog? When you can't stay consistent over such a brief period of time, clearly something is fundamentally wrong with your logic.

    "it would not be my above response to a lame ad-hominem attack against pro-lifers. It would be something more like this:"

    This is really lame Josh. As someone who has invested heavily (on a personal basis) in a movement that claims the right to govern the actions of others, I would expect something more than a highly flawed bit of logic. I can defeat it at assertion #1:

    "The unborn entity, from fertilization, is a full-fledged member of the human community."

    Membership in a set is always based upon a series of tested attributes. For instance bonobos, while being primates, are not humans, because they fail some of these tests. Your inclusion of the "unborn entity" in the set "human community" is circular reasoning, because its rests on the premise that it belongs by definition.

    Any any logical argument, if the basis is incorrect, then all that follows is considered unproven.

    You would radically change the lives of others, by legal fiat, based upon bad logic?

  • http://prolifemusician.blogspot.com/ Clinton

    Hello, Richard:

    Some great arguments have already been made so I'll try not to duplicate any.

    "There is no child, there is a fetus." I should point out that the word "fetus" comes from the Latin word for "young one" or "offspring," so in essence what you're saying is "there is no child, there is a child." Zygote/embryo/fetus are just stages of development like toddler, adolescent, or teenager. There is no fundamental event taking place at birth that suddenly makes a human a "child." And when the child comes out, he/she is still attached to the umbilical cord. Does the child remain "unborn" until the cord is cut? I should also point out that "insisting" upon calling the unborn child a fetus is a lack-of-emotion appeal. You are just as guilty as trying to remove all emotion from the issue as pro-lifers can be of playing on emotion to win people to their side.

    Also, you accuse Josh of making "straw man" arguments, but you are guilty of using "ad hominem" arguments. Pro-lifers are not "anti-choicers." That's a pro-choice buzz word to make pro-lifers seem like horrible people when in fact, we are not "anti-choice" at all. We consider abortions to be homicide and just like I believe you would oppose murder, we would not call you "anti-choice" for opposing murder. We oppose abortion because it is the killing of an innocent unborn human being. It is homicide, so we oppose the choice to commit homicide even to unborn children. And by the same token, I won't call you an "anti-lifer" because you support abortion.

  • http://ProLifePodcast.net Josh Brahm

    “This is a false dichotomy. [That we either treat this entity as another human being at a different stage of development as us, or we discriminate against her because she is less developed.] Are you proposing we treat children as adults, and give them the right to vote and drive cars? Treatment of human beings is based upon rational justification, not personal prejudice, as this treatment is never called discrimination.”

    Richard, there is a MAJOR difference between giving children drivers licenses, and legislating that we may not kill them. There is a reason we don’t give kids licenses or the right to vote. That doesn’t disqualify them from basic human rights, like life.

    Amazingly, you accused me of creating a false dichotomy by creating a false dichotomy. This tells me that there’s a communication gap happening. It seems that you’re not really understanding my argument, and perhaps I’m not truly understanding yours. Thus we’re just talking past each other, which is clearly not effective.

    I can provide rational justification for treating unborn humans as valuable entities, the way we treat born humans. If you are actually interested in that rational justification, then go to http://www.caseforlife.com/

    “I sincerely doubt you have ever met anyone who has said ‘Unless a anti-choice person will adopt your child when born then you should abort it’.”

    No, I haven’t heard someone say that. As I wrote above, what I HAVE heard people say is that unless pro-lifers are willing to adopt all the unwanted babies, they shouldn’t even talk about the humanity of the unborn or claim that abortion is morally wrong. That’s way different then the words you put in my mouth in the above statement. I’m trying very hard not to attack strawman arguments here, Richard. Are you?

    “Membership in a set is always based upon a series of tested attributes. For instance bonobos, while being primates, are not humans, because they fail some of these tests. Your inclusion of the “unborn entity” in the set “human community” is circular reasoning, because its rests on the premise that it belongs by definition.”

    It’s only circular reasoning if I have no evidence to support the statement. I do, and you can read about it in the above website that summarizes it well. (Or for a more sophisticated legal argument against abortion rights, Francis Beckwith’s “Defending Life” is the best treatise I’ve read.)

    I wrote out a syllogistic argument, and you rejected it because I didn’t provide all the reasoning within the syllogism, even though that’s not required in a syllogism. It’s not circular reasoning. Circular reasoning would be me saying “humans are valuable because they are human.”

  • Richard Moore

    "I should point out that the word “fetus” comes from the Latin word for “young one” or “offspring,” so in essence what you’re saying is “there is no child, there is a child.”

    Etymology is not defining concept here. If another language other than English fetus and child shares no such roots, are you saying that the debate is changed? This is a very silly argument.

    "Zygote/embryo/fetus are just stages of development like toddler, adolescent, or teenager"

    And a steel superstructure is just a stage of development in building a skyscraper, but I would treat them the same, to my peril. As humans, we have the intelligence to distinguish between things, and we do so all the time. To argue we lose this ability in the special case of this issue is nonsense.

    "There is no fundamental event taking place at birth that suddenly makes a human a “child.” "

    There quite clearly is (though modern technology has blurred this somewhat, and legalized abortion laws reflect this). At some point, a human being transitions from only being able to live attached to its mother to being able to live unattached, with assistance from other human beings. This is a fundamental difference.

    In addition, the fertilized cell, by its very structure and function, will destroy itself without genetic re-programming from its mother (and only its mother) via a process known as imprinting. We now know that imprinting continues until very late in the pregnancy, as stem cells are constantly reprogrammed via regulatory molecules delivered via the placenta. Clearly, a child once borne no longer needs this process to survive.

    "Also, you accuse Josh of making “straw man” arguments, but you are guilty of using “ad hominem” arguments. Pro-lifers are not “anti-choicers.”

    Please review the definition of "ad hominem". I have made no irrelevant personal attack. A defining difference between you position and mine is that you with to end the womans right to choice. I may or may not agree with you on other positions you hold, they are therefore not defining. Since is am also in favor of life, calling you pro-life is a misrepresentation of the meaning of the phrase.

    I of course have no problem with any label you wish to use about yourself, just don't insist I use it.

    "We consider abortions to be homicide and just like I believe you would oppose murder, we would not call you “anti-choice” for opposing murder."

    Your logic is very confused here, please rethink it. If abortion was illegal, then choice becomes irrelevant. But it is not, and a women may choose or not choose to have one. You are against her right to choose.

    "We oppose abortion because it is the killing of an innocent unborn human being."

    To use the cliche, then don't get one. No one is forcing you to. The real issue is why you feel your unproven belief should be used to govern others, especially when you are unable to articulate a coherent, rational argument in favor of it. Look at your current line of reasoning — it is based upon peculiarities in the usage in human language. Is that really a sound basis for defining the rights of others? Can't you find some more objective and relevant line of argument?

  • http://ProLifePodcast.net Josh Brahm

    Richard, this article may help with the misconception that the unborn develop like a skyscraper. http://www.firstthings.com/onthesquare/2006/11/st

  • Richard Moore

    "Richard, there is a MAJOR difference between giving children drivers licenses, and legislating that we may not kill them. There is a reason we don’t give kids licenses or the right to vote. That doesn’t disqualify them from basic human rights, like life."

    Clearly, and I am glad you recognize that all actions we take are situational, and not governed by absolute laws. Sadly, at the same time you reject that very logic by given the fetus the right to not be aborted by ignoring the totality of the situation. I am not impressed by your arguments when you contradict yourself in the same paragraph.

    "Amazingly, you accused me of creating a false dichotomy by creating a false dichotomy"

    Josh, please keep up here. I did not ask you to accept the premise that children should drive. Is this really going to be your level of discourse? I attack your premises and you respond by trying to attack my rhetoric?

    "I can provide rational justification for treating unborn humans as valuable entities, the way we treat born humans. If you are actually interested in that rational justification, then go to http://www.caseforlife.com/"

    No fair. I cannot possibly respond to an endless series of web links. Make your arguments here and now, or admit you are at a loss.

    "As I wrote above, what I HAVE heard people say is that unless pro-lifers are willing to adopt all the unwanted babies, they shouldn’t even talk about the humanity of the unborn or claim that abortion is morally wrong. "

    Ok, I will accept this, but did Jackie say that? Or others not here to clarify. In other words, does making abortion illegal or immoral in any way depend upon the comments of unamed others. I think not.

    "It’s only circular reasoning if I have no evidence to support the statement"

    No, it is still circular reasoning. Since we are now resorting to offsite evidence, I recommend "A Concise Introduction to Logic" by Patrick Hurley.

    "Circular reasoning would be me saying “humans are valuable because they are human.”"

    Not, really, it is closer to a tautology, eg humans are valuable because humans are valuable" It is logically incomplete at any rate. Circular reasoning is more like:

    The Bible says God wrote it, therefore God wrote the Bible.

  • http://prolifemusician.blogspot.com/ Clinton

    I can find other lines of argument, but you refused to carefully read my entire entry. I wasn't going to make an exhaustive argument because two other people had done that already.

    If you insist on using words, then etymology is very important. If you insist that we call the unborn child a "fetus," then it is important to understand what the word fetus means. Offspring, plain and simple. You cannot argue against etymology simply because it shatters your argument.

    There is a fundamental difference between a living unborn child developing inside a womb and a mechanical structure. Josh provided a link for your perusal.

    So what you're saying is that the definition of human life changes with the development of modern science? Currently, a child can be born about five months prematurely and have a chance, however small, of survival. What about if science one day perfects artificial womb technology and a child can survive outside the womb at any stage of pregnancy? Would that, then, determine that life begins at conception? Why would that be any different than now? Why is viability such a "be all and end all" of when life begins?

    The facts of the matter are that the child is conceived by human parents, and everything reproduces after its own kind, plus the child has human DNA. The child is human at all points of his/her life span, ergo the child is alive at conception.

    Another criteria for life, according to you, seems to be the imprinting of stem cells. What about other imprints? Through a young child's life, his/her brain is constantly developing, and his/her emotional state is being imprinted by his/her family and the world around him/her. We don't actually become fully developed until we become adults, so by your logic it should be acceptable to kill any non-adult. Not to mention that I'm sure the imprinting process doesn't stop at exactly the same time for each unborn child. So does one unborn child become human a few minutes or hours before another? Why is the beginning of life so arbitrary?

    Plus, infants cannot live apart from their mother. They may not reside inside their mother any longer and may not be attached, but they cannot survive without the care of their parents. So by your logic, infanticide should also be legal.

    For your edification, here is the definition of ad hominem: "attacking an opponent's character rather than answering his argument." This comes from the Latin for "to the man." It is an ad hominem attack to call pro-lifers "anti-choicers." In fact, you've committed intellectual dishonesty by even defending your usage of it.

    The truth is that pro-lifers are not trying to take away the woman's right the choose. We believe that women are wonderful and should have the right to choose their religion, their spouse, where to go to school, what car to drive, what outfit to wear, etc, etc. I may love someone dearly, but I would never support their right to go murder someone they don't like. By the same token, I would never support a woman's right to kill an unborn child. She may make any choice she wants but when it comes to a moral wrong, then choosing the moral wrong (like abortion) is unacceptable. You are "anti-life" when it comes to abortion, but I doubt you're "anti-life" when it comes to murder, genocide, etc. So I will not call you "anti-life" because it's just an inflammatory insult. As such, I am "anti-choice" when it comes to abortion, murder, genocide, etc. However, I am "pro-choice" when the choices don't involve the taking of innocent life. We are not setting out to rob women of anything.

  • Richard Moore

    "Richard, this simply does not make any sense. Josh was attempting to put forward the premise that “If you claim an action is immoral (and should consequently be outlawed), you are not responsible for an alternative outlet for that immoral action.” What you’ve done is simply do a 180 and place the burden on pro-lifers."

    All the assertions (morality, who has rights, etc) are from the anti-choice community. I fail to see why you would complain about burdens of proof, or "why can't I make my responses in the form of a syllogism, etc"

    You already demand that discussions take place using your own personal dictionary — must they also meet your rules of rhetoric? What does any of this have to do with the issues?

  • Richard Moore

    "I can find other lines of argument, but you refused to carefully read my entire entry. I wasn’t going to make an exhaustive argument because two other people had done that already.

    If you insist on using words, then etymology is very important. If you insist that we call the unborn child a “fetus,” then it is important to understand what the word fetus means. Offspring, plain and simple. You cannot argue against etymology simply because it shatters your argument."

    Talk about refusing to read what people have written! As I previously wrote, Latin origins of words cannot possibly have anything to do with laws that govern our actions.

  • http://prolifemusician.blogspot.com/ Clinton

    Oh no, Richard? Then are are the names of many of our laws in Latin? "Habeus Corpus," and all that? Latin plays a major role in our laws.

  • Richard Moore

    "There is a fundamental difference between a living unborn child developing inside a womb and a mechanical structure"

    Obviously. I was using an analogy to demonstrate your argument was flawed. "Developmental stages" is also an analogy.

  • Bobby Bambino

    Richard,

    "All the assertions (morality, who has rights, etc) are from the anti-choice community."

    Are you saying that non-anti-choicers do not believe in rights or morality? I'm trying to appeal to common human moral intuition about right and wrong. If the claim is that such concepts do not exist, we need to shift the discussion to another level.

    "All the assertions (morality, who has rights, etc) are from the anti-choice community. I fail to see why you would complain about burdens of proof, or “why can’t I make my responses in the form of a syllogism, etc”"

    I asked if you could put the original argument that Josh was critiquing into a syllogism. What is the "how many children have pro-lifers adopted" argument supposed to convince me of, change my mind about, or what is it a response to? That was my question.

    "You already demand that discussions take place using your own personal dictionary"

    That was Josh, I believe. Good journey.

  • Bobby Bambino

    "That was Josh, I believe."

    Oops, maybe it was Clinton. Either way…

  • Richard Moore

    "What about if science one day perfects artificial womb technology and a child can survive outside the womb at any stage of pregnancy? Would that, then, determine that life begins at conception? Why would that be any different than now? Why is viability such a “be all and end all” of when life begins?"

    Ok, now this is a great point, so think it through. There would be no mother involved, right? So the current issue, as a practical matter goes away. A new one comes into existence, one dealing with science and the creation of human life. Does someone assembled in a test tube have rights?

    I am sure at this point we will have new groups arguing the various rights of artificially created humans, etc. I have no answer for you, but it is a fascinating area of discussion.

    And completely irrelevant to the issue at hand, which is your desire to force a woman to create a child against here will, through force of law.

  • Richard Moore

    "Oh no, Richard? Then are are the names of many of our laws in Latin? “Habeus Corpus,” and all that? Latin plays a major role in our laws."

    I am going to show this to others, Clinton, because they will not believe someone making arguments in favor of making abortion illegal is fixated on the fact some people speak words derived from Latin.

    I hope you don't mind, be forewarned if you do.

  • http://prolifemusician.blogspot.com/ Clinton

    Actually, Richard, you misunderstood. Which was probably my fault for not explaining clearly. What if a woman is just a month pregnant, but something severe happens and she faces the decision that her life is in jeopardy. The child could then be transported from her womb to the artificial womb to live. That is completely relevant to the conversation because you used viability as one of your arguments.

    Also, you completely ignored my question about Latin. Latin words are used all the time in our laws, so why should the Latin origin of the word "fetus" be ignored?

  • http://prolifemusician.blogspot.com/ Clinton

    I guess I didn't refresh fast enough. Richard, you are not making arguments, you are trying in desperation to prove your side. As such, I will no longer argue with you. Good day.

  • Richard Moore

    "Are you saying that non-anti-choicers do not believe in rights or morality? I’m trying to appeal to common human moral intuition about right and wrong. If the claim is that such concepts do not exist, we need to shift the discussion to another level."

    Clearly such concepts exist. They are however not in agreement when it comes to specifics. If you wish to imply the concept of absolute right and wrong, give it up, better people than either you are I have failed at this task.

  • Richard Moore

    "Actually, Richard, you misunderstood. Which was probably my fault for not explaining clearly. What if a woman is just a month pregnant, but something severe happens and she faces the decision that her life is in jeopardy. The child could then be transported from her womb to the artificial womb to live. That is completely relevant to the conversation because you used viability as one of your arguments."

    Because viability is a legitimate area of discussion and our current abortion laws reflect this. A recently passed law (Nebraska?) made a precise statement as to when an abortion is allowed (prior to 20 weeks). This law was passed by anti-choicers, who somehow possess a precise definition of when conception occurs and when taking away a women's right to terminate begins.

    But this is not the issue is it? The issue is making abortion illegal without giving a justification that does not resort to personal prejudice.

    I have pointed out that the fertilized cell is doomed to extinction by its very design until imprinted by the mother. Would you say a non-viable organism should be treated differently than a viable one? I would.

  • Richard Moore

    "I guess I didn’t refresh fast enough. Richard, you are not making arguments, you are trying in desperation to prove your side. As such, I will no longer argue with you. Good day."

    Thanks for the discussion. For the record, I don't feel desperate, as I have used no appeals to emotion, or distortion of scientific fact, or logical fallacies. I have merely pointed out that the arguments used by the anti-choice movement do.

  • Richard Moore

    "Richard, this article may help with the misconception that the unborn develop like a skyscraper. http://www.firstthings.com/onthesquare/2006/11/st

    I just found it confusing, full of straw men, and containing many scientific errors. Can you summarize for me what you gathered from it you find enlightening?

  • Richard Moore

    “I can provide rational justification for treating unborn humans as valuable entities, the way we treat born humans. If you are actually interested in that rational justification, then go to http://www.caseforlife.com/”

    Ok, the arguments at that site are the same as ones here, I have refuted those. By the way, their section labeled "The Scientific Case" contains no science at all, just a bunch of quotes. Is that really the best you have?

  • Richard Moore

    "For your edification, here is the definition of ad hominem: “attacking an opponent’s character rather than answering his argument.” This comes from the Latin for “to the man.” It is an ad hominem attack to call pro-lifers “anti-choicers.” In fact, you’ve committed intellectual dishonesty by even defending your usage of it."

    Ok, this is an ad hominem attack against me.

    I still fail to see that using the label "anti-choice" in the current discussion to highlight that the issue I am discussing is whether one is in favor of a women's right to choose or against it, while still allowing anyone to label themselves anyway they choose is an ad hominem.

  • Richard Moore

    Rereading my comments for accuracy I stumbled upon this comment from above:

    "Try walking into a planned parenthood center when pregnant, to talk about all your options, and tell them you want to put your baby up for adoption. See how supportive they are of that idea. I can guarantee you they won’t like it. It won’t get them the money that abortion will."

    All assertions in this statement are provably false. How can your movement expect to create support among educated people for the permanent criminalization of abortion if you cannot make credible statements? Can your organizers name any movement that succeeded over time when a strategy was followed? If clearly is not working for the Prop 8 crowd. Eventually objective truth always wins out. Always.

  • BenW

    Richard, what is you specific qualification for a human being, that it can survive without imprinting? Isn't that just a stage, just as a toddler's full reliance on his mother is just a stage? A fetus has the same genetic material, no new information will be added. It has human parents, how can human parents create something non-human?

  • http://feterty.blogspot.com/ Nulono

    "Choose" is a transitive verb; it needs an object. I am for a woman's right to choose to eat meat, drive a car, vote, drink alcohol, use marijuana, and wear pants. I am against a woman (or anyone) being given the "right" to own a slave, to commit arson, rape, kidnapping, or assault, or to take an innocent human life.

    Please explain the relevance of viability. Viability is heavily dependent upon the medical technology available. A fetus that's viable today would not have been viable 500 years ago.

  • http://www.truelibertyinchrist.blogspot.com Miss Freedom Woman

    GREAT ARTICLE, JOSH!! I personally know several Pro-lifers that are seeking adoption. I will also adopt in the future. It is such a long and EXPENSIVE process. I have an idea… Why don't we as a nation reduce the charges for adoption and the paperwork and paper filing, so that women who are in need of willing couples to adopt their children, are able and free to do so, in a timely manner. Instead of just saying let's destroy the life, if that's what the woman wants. We can make it easier on both ends. The woman struggling with the decision of adoption, the child soon to be murdered and the couple willing to adopt and raise the children with love. Of course, I am being a bit fasicious; however, I am trying to make a point. And that is… NOT all Pro-choicers are in it for the womens rights, they just don't want to have restrictions, guidelines and rules for their life and their bodies. So, to them by standing up for a "woman," allows them to shield themselves from any type of judgement. It doesn't matter what anyone else experiences or goes through, as long as, number one is ok. And of course, that is themselves. The only thing that I can do is pray for people with that mentality. I am a Pro-lifers and I care about the woman, the baby and the couple desiring to adopt. I am not some radical extremist with no heart, religious fanatic, unmerciful and an enemy of womens rights. Come on now, I am a woman. However, I know my role and I know my limitations as a woman. I have rights; however, they are not to supercede other peoples rights, as humans with the breathe of life; regardless, of their location, environment, age or size. I can go on, but I will not. Selah.

  • moller

    Great answers, Josh. You touched on a very important point, and one that I’ve been promoting for years, and that is that the pro-abortion argument is the same argument–the same argument–as the pro-slavery argument. Consider: States’ Rights and Personal Rights; Quality of Life of slaves and unwanted children; and the sub-humanness of slaves and unborn children.

    In a similar vein, we might ask the pro-abortionists: If I agree to allow abortions in every case where a woman’s life is in danger, will you agree to disallow them in all other circumstances??? Probably not.

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  • Ashley

    Exactly the second I’m legally allowed to adopt those precious angels I will.