Culture

Salon writer pushes abortion as mercy killing

Perhaps it shouldn’t be surprising that there are people who know that abortion takes a human life yet concoct justifications for it anyway; human nature being what it is, there’s nothing interest and ideology can’t rationalize. But personally, I don’t think I’ll ever get used to the flippancy and arrogance with which this subset of pro-choicers approach the issue.

One can understand how those merely misled about what the unborn are would treat abortion casually and look down on opposition. But shouldn’t those who know it kills someone treat the subject with some recognition that not just any reason is good enough to kill an innocent, and with some respect for the intentions of pro-lifers?

These are some of the questions sparked by Ellen Hawley Roddick’s latest Salon post, about an exchange with a pro-lifer illustrating why she considers herself pro-life and pro-choice:

He said abortion is murder. I agreed that it may be.

I did not explain why I conceded this point. But when I had become pregnant, I had known immediately and beyond any doubt that I was no longer alone in my body. Not having heard of anyone else having this startling experience, I asked other women. A surprising number said yes, they, too, had known they were pregnant as soon as the baby was conceived.

That’s quite an admission. Once made, a reasonable person would expect it to render at least a few abortions unacceptable to Roddick. But she soon makes it clear that the baby’s status means nothing:

Given this anecdotal evidence that in some sense personhood may begin at conception, I still believe that a newly pregnant woman has a right to end her pregnancy. Surely it is no gift to force a baby into a world where its own mother does not want it. Life can be tough enough for people whose mothers do want them.

She goes on to cite various statistics about the poverty, neglect, and abuse pro-lifers are “thrusting on unwanted children” by refusing to let someone kill them, sneering of her sparring partner that “evidently his God isn’t concerned with” child health and welfare. (Passing references to “No-Choicers who murder physicians” and are “afraid of women who are not obedient to” men shed more light on how fair-minded her analysis really is.)

Though tailor-made to tug the heartstrings and make pro-aborts feel better about themselves, the logic of Roddick’s argument simply doesn’t hold up.

First, a child isn’t necessarily “unwanted” just because his or her biological parents and the abortion crowd don’t want him or her around. Couples across the country stand ready and willing to adopt. In 2008, 135,813 children were adopted and can be expected to lead happy, healthy lives because somebody extended to them the compassion Roddick and her fellow travelers didn’t think they were worth. Granted, that’s only about a third of the 400,540 foster children currently in the system, and adoption policy faces various challenges that need to be addressed, but it’s simply not true that abortion is saving these children from some inevitable doom.

Besides, shouldn’t the lion’s share of the blame for “unwanted children” rest with those who create children they don’t want? Do pro-choicers have any proposals to discourage promiscuous Americans from increasing the number of children in need? It’s not exactly rocket science to not impregnate someone or get impregnated.

Second, we aren’t the ones bringing these children into the world; the aforementioned men and women who choose to have sex without regard for the potential consequences are. Once pregnancy begins, that child is already “in the world” as a living, flesh-and-blood entity with value, rights, interests, potential, the capacity to be harmed, and a future.

Third, that’s why rather than sparing children a life of harm, abortion inflicts on them the greatest harm of all. Trying though the circumstances one is born into may be, every human being has the potential to overcome them. Abortion takes that possibility away, denying children all of their future hopes, joys, and fulfillment as well as hardship and despair. How can any of us presume to know how anyone’s life will turn out? How dare we take it upon ourselves to decide who isn’t worth the trouble, to place our own judgment over what the wishes of the child would have been?

Indeed, if sparing the victim hardship is an acceptable motive for what Roddick herself concedes “may be” the murder of a person, then surely it’s equally acceptable to murder older people out of mercy as well – the six-year-old living in the slums, the HIV-positive teen, the severely depressed homeless man, the grandmother suffering from dementia.

Would Ellen Roddick condone such mercy killings? If not, then it must be some completely different variable that really justifies abortion, making this entire detour into child suffering a red herring meant exploit emotion rather than illuminate justice.

Live Action on Facebook
  • Richard

    “Do pro-choicers have any proposals to discourage promiscuous Americans from increasing the number of children in need?” You’re referring to sex-education and family planning. Also, not sure why the parents of children in need necessarily be promiscuous unless you’re playing the bad-slut-no-abortion-for-you card.

    The assertion that a fetus is a human in the world with rights also fails. As a society, we have suspended the granting of certain rights until the actual birth, just as we suspend the granting of other rights until the 18 anniversary of that same birth. One of the rights you get when you are born is the right to control your body with respect to whether or not you carry an unborn to term–this is a great right that no one should be able to take away and the anti-abortionists attempt to continually attack this right isn’t helping their cause in the slightest. You would do better to change tack and start supporting groups that promote sexual health and family planning, so that the conceptions that produce unwanted unborns are fewer and further between.

    • mcrognale

      Richard, the resident troll, strikes again. His assertion that “the fetus is a human in the world with rights also fails”, fails miserably. Once the conception has taken place the “choice” no longer exists. The new human has every right granted by God that every ither human has.

      • Richard

        The belief that “zygotes are people whose right to life supersedes the rights of the woman” is not one held generally by society.

        • Richard’s Rhetoric

          By which society? Perhaps your small circle of friends who you carefully pick out to believe the same as you. While your rhetoric is the same blah argument we’ve heard before, you are claiming the right to kill a life. I suppose you think that “reducing” the number of abortions, making them “rare” somehow sets you apart. Oof, I pity whatever you’ve been through that pushes you to make abortion seem okay. Deep down, you wouldn’t be on this site if you thought you were truly “reducing” the number and keeping abortions “rare.”

          • Richard

            My “small circle” is the entirety of the United States which holds the rights of a woman to end her pregnancy over those of the fetus to life. Nor am I in the minority in wanting to reduce abortions, the majority agrees similarly.

            We can both work together to reduce abortions, you just need to tone down the “your rape baby is a gift from God” rhetoric.

          • Richard’s Rhetoric

            Nice try Richard. I want you to rethink, and go again. The “”I’m meeting these individuals in the middle and it sounds so good rhetoric” is cute, but not strong. Try again.

    • http://twitter.com/CalFreiburger Calvin Freiburger

      “You’re referring to sex-education and family planning.”

      Pro-lifers already support effective sex education; we only disagree with pro-choicers on the subject when they push promotion or casualization of sex on teens. For more, see:
      http://www.heritage.org/research/reports/2008/04/executive-summary-abstinence-education-assessing-the-evidence
      http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/02/01/AR2010020102628.html
      http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2005/apr/27/20050427-110507-6225r/
      http://www.acpeds.org/Abstinence-Education.html
      http://www.lifesitenews.com/news/abstinence-education-reduces-teen-sex-rates-study-shows/
      http://www.abstinenceassociation.org/research/index.html
      http://www.lifesitenews.com/news/major-study-says-abstinence-only-programs-are-best/
      http://www.heritageservices.org/faq_effectiveness.html

      As for “family planning,” your side’s chosen policies on that score don’t actually work as advertised, in part because lack of contraception “access” isn’t a major factor in unintended pregnancy:
      http://www.nytimes.com/2012/02/19/opinion/sunday/douthat-the-safe-legal-rare-illusion.html?_r=2
      http://theweek.com/bullpen/column/224398/the-arrogance-of-obamas-accommodation/1

      Your second paragraph is just a string of claims you don’t really make much of an effort to demonstrate are logically sound, or rooted in any rational and substantive conception of individual rights.

      • Richard

        It’s clear that the rate of conception drops markedly with the effective use of birth control so you don’t really hear anyone saying that the route to reducing unwanted pregnancies is to ban the use of birth control. You can make the argument that the prevalence of birth control leads to more sex, but don’t say it like you have a problem with sex, say it like you want to reduce the incidences of unwanted pregnancy.

        My second paragraph stated that as a society, we have yet to grant fetuses full rights, one of them being the right to life, not based on the belief that there isn’t something special about unborn children or magical about life, but that the fetal right to life does not trump the rights of the woman involved. If you are truly committed to preventing fetal destruction, you will have to find a different path than outlawing abortion. That ship has sailed.

        • http://twitter.com/CalFreiburger Calvin Freiburger

          “you don’t really hear anyone saying that the route to reducing unwanted pregnancies is to ban the use of birth control.”

          That’s right; you don’t hear anyone – pro-lifers included – calling for banning birth control. Are you trying to battle a straw-man by falsely suggesting otherwise, or is there a different point somewhere in there?

          “don’t say it like you have a problem with sex, say it like you want to reduce the incidences of unwanted pregnancy.”

          No matter how we say it, you guys will misrepresent it and infer whatever sinister ulterior motives or armchair psychology you want anyway.

          “as a society, we have yet to grant fetuses full rights, one of them being the right to life”

          And that’s a completely meaningless observation with no bearing whatsoever on the acceptability of abortion.

          “If you are truly committed to preventing fetal destruction, you will have to find a different path than outlawing abortion. That ship has sailed.”

          Because you say so?

          • Richard

            I thought the un-”acceptability of abortion” had everything to do with fetal rights, saving babies, preventing murder and to me that is a very strong, valid, moral position to take. And to be clear, the goal of reducing the number of abortions is a goal we both share, you from the fetal rights position and me from a position that abortions are traumatic and expensive and not the best method for family planning.

            You and I don’t (and won’t) agree on fetal rights or sexual freedom but for the purposes of limiting the number of abortions, we don’t have to, and if we can work together rather than shouting at each other we can accomplish something that everyone agrees is a good thing, reducing the incidences of abortion. In your mind there will be a lot fewer murders and in my mind a lot less misery so it’s win-win.

            Our more troubling disagreement, in this regard, is on our differing methods on *how* to reduce the number of abortions. You want it to be illegal; I want to address the root cause, unwanted pregnancies.

            I don’t deny that criminalizing abortions would result in fewer abortions. However, making abortions illegal, I believe, is like treating the symptom rather than the underlying cause. Whether abortions are legal or illegal, as long as there are unwanted pregnancies, abortions will happen. The bigger sticking point, however, is that in pushing to criminalize abortion your are alienating the crap out of the Feminist movement and, tactically, you’re never going to get legislation passed that affects women without buy-in from the Feminist movement (I’m not denying that the legislation will benefit fetuses, I’m just saying they don’t vote).

            The tack of attempting to reduce unwanted pregnancies, however, avoids the ire of the Feminist community and provides you with an ally in reducing abortions. I’m not saying that you needn’t have an axe to grind with Feminism on other social issues, I’m just saying that you back-burner those issues for a time in order to work on what I see as your primary focus, preventing murder.

            If I am completely off base, and that the anti-abortion movement isn’t solely about preserving Life but is indeed, simply part of a larger social war that is being fought, I will go on my merry way trying to reduce abortions while continuing to fight you tooth and nail on the larger social front.

          • Timmehh

            Respectfully, if you go over to LifeSiteNews you will find people who believe that it should be outlawed. But yes, I haven’t heard any politicians (that I know of at least) crying for it to be outlawed.

  • http://twitter.com/OurLadyBusiness Our Lady Business

    Richard, we had highlighted exactly the same inane quotation from this “Calvin Freiburger” person and were just about to showcase the idiocy of those particular words, when we saw that you had already done it, and so very well. Live Action News readers, please understand that we are never, EVER going to join the backwards countries that make abortion illegal, countries like Iran, Saudi Arabia, and most of Africa. We are instead going to stay with the rest of the developed world: Europe, Scandinavia, Canada. Please remember that Mitt Romney’s sister, Jane, has already reassured us that Mitt has no stomach for an abortion fight once he’s president. Please recognize, even as you’re crowing over Mitt’s mealy-mouthed “it would be my preference that Roe V. Wade be overturned” quotation, that nothing in those words connotes a promise. Please recognize that your obsession with very early-stage pregnancies is creepy, and you would be much better off becoming a foster parent, volunteering at a children’s shelter or a local school, or otherwise caring for some of the many children in this country who are already living lives bereft of love or support. Most of all, please recognize that the autonomy of women over their OWN BODIES is absolute and guaranteed by the U.S. Constitution.

    • http://twitter.com/CalFreiburger Calvin Freiburger

      Well, I’m not quite sure what the point of it is, but the screen-name commenter putting an actual name in quotation marks is original, I’ll give you that much.

      Please recognize that your entire comment is an off-topic stream of consciousness that neither substantively addresses the post you’re commenting on nor backs up its own claims. Please understand that pro-lifers won’t be intimidated by defamation an innuendo. Please understand that we know the difference between two women’s rights and frauds who desecrate the legacy of the original American feminists whose label they’ve hijacked. Please recognize that the heart of your objection is not rights, equality, or autonomy, but the power to murder one’s own children. And please recognize that – in America, at least, good usually triumphs over evil eventually.

      • Richard

        I’m with “Calvin” on this one. Good usually triumphs over evil eventually, or in this case, in 1973.

        • PoorRichard

          Nice Richard, just ask Roe how she felt about that one :)

          • Richard

            I hear she changed her mind. I fully respect her choice to not get an abortion. I don’t respect anyone who foists that choice on others.

          • PoorRichard

            Seriously? Go read about what happened. The abortion is done. That life is not here today. An entire life including the laughter, sadness, lessons learned, hope, joy, everything, is gone. Taken away. There will always be that missing person. You are posting about on this web site, which is cute an all, but you’re failing to see the lives that should be here.

          • Richard

            “There will always be that missing person.” Let’s call him “Timmy.”
            http://doonesbury.slate.com/strip/set/silent-scream

    • Matthew

      Developed world!? Ha! How barbarically archaic is the idea of going into a womb and mutilating a living being?! Evidently, you need a fifth-grade lesson in biology and physiology to understand that pre-born babies have their own DNA, blood type, gender, heart beat etc. Meaning it’s NOT just the mother’s body!! Study up.

      • Richard

        Yes, keep abortion safe, legal and rare.

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Daniel-Durham/100002906757423 Daniel Durham

      ” please recognize that the autonomy of women over their OWN BODIES is absolute and guaranteed by the U.S. Constitution. ”
      The baby is not a part of the mother’s body any more than it’s a part of the father’s.

      • Richard

        So take it out. Also, placenta.

    • LadyBusinessShouldMindHerOwn

      I suppose you think your statement is earth-shattering! Yes, let’s be like Canada and Europe because they are so terribly developed! Murdering babies in the womb (including the babies at six week as that’s what pregnancy is, sweetheart) is so very much forward-thinking. I would highly suggest you do us all a favor: rather than reading articles that disagree with your forward thinking opinions, continue volunteering…but preferably not around children. Best not spread those “forward” ideals that you have. Next you’ll be pushing for the Spartan ideal of leaving the sickly babies on the side of the mountain! Now that’s really moving forward.

      Bullcrocky. If you love Europe, Scandinavia, and Canada so much, how about you head over there. Meanwhile, the rest of us will not run around murdering babies, zygotes, fetuses, whatever you wish to call them today.

  • Michele

    Did they take the Salon post down? I can’t find it.