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Seven ways abortion has changed the U.S.

Abortion in the United States has claimed the lives of over 54 million babies since its legalization in 1973 – this we know. It has stolen grandchildren; future friends; future spouses; and future doctors, humanitarians, and congresswomen. It’s an American tragedy, and we are witnessing the beginning stages of its long-awaited demise. Unfortunately, in addition to stealing the lives of innocent children, abortion has caused a great deal of damage to American culture.

1. Children Became a Curse

If there is anything that population control committees and pro-aborts have succeeded at, it is convincing most of America that children are expensive, messy, freedom-stealing dream-squashers. The pro-abortion movement has helped to create a societal shift in our view of children. It took the joy of parenting and turned it into a tedious burden. Pro-aborts and population-control cohorts convinced women that in order to have a life of any value, they must have a career. As a result, children became an afterthought to many women. For example, often, if a woman in college finds herself unexpectedly pregnant, she is convinced she has no choice but to have an abortion because she’s been told that having a baby means she is guaranteed to be unsuccessful in college or stalled in her career. In addition, it seems that more children equals less success, less money, less possessions, and less free time, making children the apparent and ironic ultimate killers of fun.

2. Increased Child Abuse

Despite claims from early and current supporters of abortion that abortion availability leads to less child abuse because unwanted children are not born, the opposite has happened. Abortion has led to the devaluation of human life, especially of children, and therefore children are seen as expendable, undeserving creatures. In fact, according to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, sexual abuse of children rose 83% between 1986 and 1993. In addition, physical neglect of children rose 102%, and physical abuse of children rose 42%. Those numbers are staggering and, as reported by Life.org.nz, Dr. Philip G. Ney of the Department of Psychiatry at Royal Jubilee Hospital in Canada states that abortion is clearly a contributing factor to the rise in abuse because it creates guilt, frustration, and hostility as well as diminishes the significance of the once-unthinkable act of harming the defenseless.

3. Increased Crime Rate

Pro-abortionists have long claimed that access to abortion would lead to a decrease in crime because fewer children would be born to single mothers. But according to a 2007 study by John R. Lott, Jr. of the University of Maryland and John E. Whitley of the Institute for Defense and Analyses, there has actually been an increase in out-of-wedlock births in the U.S. since abortion became legal. In addition, there has been a decrease in the number of children given up for adoption and, therefore, an increase in the number of children being parented by single mothers. According to the study, this has lead to a 7% increase in murder rates. As reported by LifeNews.com, 5% of white children were born out of wedlock from 1965 to 1969, compared to 16% in the 1980s. Black children born out of wedlock increased from 35% to 62% over the same time period. And, unfortunately, due to the struggles of single parenthood, studies show that children of unwed mothers are more likely to become criminals.

4. Increased Discrimination

People with disabilities have been fighting for their rights for decades. They have fought for better access to public buildings, the end of discrimination in the workplace, access to an equal education, and the world’s warped perception that life with a disability is not worth living. Abortion has set the disability civil rights movement back. Even some of those who affiliate themselves with the right to life believe that abortion should be legal when the unborn child is diagnosed with a disability or genetic condition. In fact, 90% of unborn children with Down syndrome are aborted. Children are also being aborted because they have cystic fibrosis, or a cleft palate. It’s discrimination in a society that works to create more accepting, diverse communities. So why are so many of us okay with deciding that a child with a disability would be better off dead?

5. Less Respect for Women

Abortion wasn’t alone on this one; birth control played a huge part as well. Women have become much more sexually aggressive, and it’s touted as a good thing. However, birth control and abortion have helped to create a culture in which women are treated as sex objects. Predators are more likely to get away with sexually abusing their young victims because they can bring them to any abortion clinic with no questions asked. Abortion has opened the door for irresponsible, abusive men to be able to mistreat women more freely.

6. Destruction of the Family

With the lack of respect for women brought on by birth control and abortion comes the destruction of the family. If an unwed couple find themselves pregnant, the man, rather than taking responsibility and marrying his girlfriend, feels that he can just pay for an abortion and be done with “it,” leaving the girlfriend to feel the loss, pain, and guilt. If the woman decides to have and keep the baby, she is now left alone to raise a child and the man is free to live his life as he pleases. In addition, married couples who find themselves unexpectedly pregnant often disagree on how to handle the situation, but the men have no say. If the wife has an abortion, and the husband doesn’t want her to, or vice-versa, the marriage can be destroyed.

7. Opened the Door to Infanticide

In recent news, we have witnessed how abortion has lead to the acceptance of infanticide. Though infanticide in the U.S. is nothing new, the Journal of Medical Ethics recently published an article justifying “after-birth abortion.” The article states that newborn babies and unborn babies are both morally irrelevant and only potential persons; therefore, parents should be allowed to euthanize a newborn baby if they decide they don’t want him. Authors Alberto Giubilini and Francesca Minerva argue that after-birth abortion, or infanticide, should be legal for all of the same situations in which abortion is legal, which is for any reason at any time.

Abortion has been a dark cloud over the U.S. for 39 years. In that time we have become a culture of death, a people who collectively takes pleasure in witnessing the pain of other humans on reality television, who obsesses over celebrities with drug problems, and who chooses to selfishly focus on the material objects of our world. We don’t value each other as much, we don’t value our relationships as deeply, and we have become completely desensitized and unsympathetic. Thanks to abortion and the devaluing of human life, we are able to walk past a person dying in the street without a second thought, which is the same as killing the person ourselves.

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  • http://twitter.com/FairTaxNancy Nancy

    Thank you for sharing this extremely vital information. Abortion has dehumanized and degraded us, the entire USA. The blatant disrespect for human life contributed to our decline in our standing in the world.
    Very well written and thought provoking, Mrs. Flanders.

  • Wade Felty

    Thank you for writing a respectful article that actually talks about issues in a civilized way and doesn’t make people feel like they are being judged, or that brings all kinds of religious beliefs into the debate. One thing I have to credit this site with is that there are a fair number of open-minded, civil people that can carry on a conversation; there are others who aren’t as open. 

    • pofalici

      Educate, educate, educate.

  • Karen Dudek

    So true! I wish everyone would read this and believe it. The negative effects of abortion are so far reaching and it hurts us all!

  • sorceress2000

    “It has stolen grandchildren; future friends; future spouses…”  I have often wondered to myself lately if this is the reason some of my single friends have remained single so long:  Their soulmates were never allowed to be born.  One of my friends was so depressed she hasn’t found anyone yet, then that thought crossed my mind, and I began thinking about my other single friends.  Sure there have always been confirmed bachelors/bachelorettes…but I also have believed that there should be someone out there for everyone.  Now I wonder if that is no longer the case w/ over 1 million babies aborted annually for the past 39 years.

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  • http://twitter.com/stevekerp Steve Coerper

    8th way:  euthanasia is now thinkable.  When aged and/or infirm people no longer have “value” (by any standard one may choose), their lives may be ended “legally.”  The day is fast approaching when the Lord will hold us accountable.

  • NativeDallasite

    Roe vs Wade originated here in Dallas.  Just about all the adults, I remember, seemed to be against legalized abortion.    They predicted that it would not lead to a good end for the U.S.  They were correct.  

  • Sky falling on Roe

    Here’s another way:  Abortion, now that it and its apostles are being exposed in all of their ruthless ugliness, has engendered a majority pro-life culture that’s giving pro-aborts terminal cases of dyspepsia and paranoia.

    Previous Live Action blog posts have highlighted these bleak realities for abortion peddlers:

    In an article published Saturday [Jan. 21], Casey Martinson, a Planned Parenthood Director of Public Affairs, wrote:”… I’m sorry to say that the sky is falling on Roe v Wade. It’s been falling incrementally for the past four decades, and it fell further, faster, in 2011 than in any year before. According to the Guttmacher Institute, state legislatures passed 94 new laws restricting abortion in 2012. Not only is that a new record, but it shatters the previous record of 34 new laws passed in 2005 by a lot.”Furthermore some of the restrictions that have been passed in recent years are actually in violation of the protections afforded by Roe v Wade, designed that way intentionally to seed a Supreme Court challenge to the 1973 decision. For example, Nebraska, Idaho, Oklahoma, and Kansas have all passed laws banning abortion after 20 weeks. Many more have tried. And if you look at who is sitting on the bench of our current Supreme Court, there are only three solidly pro-choice votes – the National Abortion Federation rates Justice Kennedy as “mixed” and Justice Sotomayor as “unknown.” The idea that Roe v Wade could be overturned is not Chicken Little.”Abortion-rights blogger Jill Filipovic writes “2011 was a really terrible year for abortion rights. Really, incredibly terrible.”Planned Parenthood cried that “2011 was a rough year for choice.”(which we all know means abortion) and said,“It’s no secret 2011 has been a crazy year for us. The attacks on PP have been relentless…”“It has been a breathtaking year watching abortion rights disappear in the United States,” Rachel Maddow, a pro-abortion rights commentator on MSNBC, said after briefly reporting on the March for Life.NARAL has the same outlook on the bleak future of abortion rights that Planned Parenthood does, publishing articles headlined “…Report Shows State-Level Attacks on Choice Skyrocketed in 2011; Analysis Shows 2012 Could Be Even Worse…”

  • Bree

    I agree with everything you said, yet one small thing you said in 6 about taking responsiblity and marrying the girlfriend – I think that’s…I don’t really have a word for that. I don’t think you should marry because you got your girlfriend knocked-up. Marry because your in love, not because of a baby. A baby should have the mother, father figure yet just marrying because of that can destory the marriage later. I’m not a expert of the subject or anything yet I’m sure a child who’s living in two seperate happy households would be better then one household who is not so happy and ends with a even nastier divorce.

    Just sayin’

  • http://twitter.com/CannedSexy Someone around here

    Eight Ways it has REALLY changed America:

    1. Given women their right to choose when and if to be pregnant. Abortion rights made sure that no woman could ever be forced by a spouse, rapist, or lover to give birth when she does not want to.

    2. Gave women the right of dominion over their own body.
    3. Dropped poverty levels for women who would be forced into poverty if they were forced to have a child.

    4. Dropped crime rates. Less children grew up in poverty, and less had to turn to crime.

    5. Bred a whole new type of feminists – the Fourth Wave is here and we won’t back down. I suggest you be afraid, because we will win every war you put against up. Hell hath no fury like when you try to strip us of our bodily rights!6. Helped to STOP infanticide. Really guys, you’re morons.7. Made sure that all children born were wanted. Women got to choose when they had a child. They want their children, which lowers abuse rates, lowers neglect, and lowers the rate of parents who despise their own children.8. Helped slow overpopulation. Really, 7 Billion people, millions upon millions will starve to death, and you want to add to it? That’s not prolife at all.Pro-Choice now, and forever. 

    • Sarah

       And your supporting links are…?

    • Fire and Mirth

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    • http://twitter.com/CalFreiburger Calvin Freiburger

      1. Women already had that right before abortion, which doesn’t prevent pregnancy but destroys a baby AFTER pregnancy has already occurred. And the flip side is that misogynists love abortion, because it helps them pressure women into disposing of responsibilities the men don’t want to deal with after getting their sex. Are you really trying to tell us the average rapist & sleazy boyfriend prefers being saddled with a kid?

      2. No, it gave them dominion over someone else’s body.

      3. They weren’t “forced” to have a child before.

      4. No, we’ve just replaced one set of hypothetical crimes with another set of actual crimes. But since the law says abortion’s legal, it’s not counted. Doesn’t mean there’s less crime or suffering.

      5. Yes – whereas yesterday’s feminists stood for women’s freedom and equality, today’s stand up for greed, cheap sex, objectification, and the right to destroy their own children. Such an improvement!

      6. If you’re going to randomly call people “morons” (a sign of someone who, as the below commenter suggested, clearly has some growing up to do), then you should be at least intelligent enough to know that how old a baby is when you kill it doesn’t make it any less a killing.

      7. They’re wanted by someone. Just not by you. That you’re talking about the apparent normalcy and reasonableness of “parents who despise their own children” should scare you.

      8. Overpopulation is largely a myth that’s been discredited years ago.

    • tricky

      1.  There is an easier way to decide when to get pregnant without resorting to murder.          
      2. What if the unborn baby is a girl?  Shouldn’t she have dominion over her body and be able to decide on her own if she can live or not?
      3. Again, no one forced these women to get pregnant.  It’s actually quite simple to not get pregnant.
      4. You must have missed point 3 of the article.
      5. Great, a new wave of idiotic feminists that are hell bent on ruining the country with their war on patriarchal society.
      6. Really? Did you read the article?
      7. Again, read the article, it actually has sources.  You are wrong on all counts.
      8. Overpopulation?  Maybe we should euthanize all the disabled, infirm, stupid, lazy, and useless people while we’re at it. 

      I would call you evil, but to an athiest, there’s no such thing.  Perceived atheism is a blight on a civilized society.  Quit living in willful ignorance.

    • Infini808

      Where is your support for your claims? I guess abortion solves everything for you?